when life gives you lemons..

so i was browsing for a nice uplifting quotes just now and i passed by this very interesting article that really opened up my eyes,my mind and my heart..i bet yours will too when you finish reading this(hopefully)..so,here it goes..

by Chris,

38 year old father of three (two, four and six), husband of 8 years, recovering drug addict (2 years sober), survivor of Paternal Post Natal Depression, pet owner (2 dogs), professing Christian, cigar loving IT Guy with Attention Deficit Disorder. Somehow he finds the time to share it all with you.

We all know the old saying, “when life gives you lemons make lemonade“. Wouldn’t it be nice if it were all that easy? The truth is, while making lemonade sounds like a wonderful thing, it can often be painful as the lemon juice will find its way into every paper cut you have, even the tiny ones that you do not see. You see, making lemonade implies making the most of a bad situation. Sometimes it is very easy to do that, but often people will take a bad situation and just sweep it under a rug and smile and pretend that everything is okay.

Man, is that a dangerous move. You can’t just make the best of it and pretend that the situation isn’t a mess in the first place. You have to carefully deal with it and put it to rest so that it doesn’t cause you additional pain. In other words, before you deal with a bad situation, make sure that you cover your paper cuts. You must make sure that you don’t let the current situation get interspersed with the wounds that you have received along life’s way.

Dealing with a bad situation is not easy. It certainly isn’t as easy as making lemonade, but it can be as rewarding and refreshing as drinking down a big icy glass. It doesn’t have to be as difficult as we sometimes make things. Here are four things to remember about dealing with life’s lemons.

1. Forget the past! When dealing with a bad situation in the present, don’t bring up the past. The past is done and you can not change it. You can afffect the present and future though. It’s okay to use experience that you have gained from the past, but don’t confuse the past with the present.

2. Deal with it! Don’t allow this situation to become a paper cut from your past that will burn the next time you make lemonade. Deal with it as soon as humanly possibly. Don’t put it off and don’t sweep it under a rug.

3. Finish it! When possible, deal with a difficult situation and be done with it. Don’t let it linger. If you make lemonade and let it sit without drinking it too long it doesn’t taste very good.

4. Learn from it! Next time the difficult situation arises, you will better know what to do if you learn. How do you think lemonade recipes get better and easier? You learn and improve the recipe.

When life hands you lemons, go ahead and make lemonade, but cover your paper cuts and drink it quickly and clean up your mess. You never know when you will need to make lemonade again.

Nice eh?nah,read some more..i managed to 'squeezed it out' from the net..it's hilarious!hahah!now c'mon everybody!lets just laugh! :D

~When life gives you lemons suck out all of the vitamin C and yell “EAT THAT, LIFE!

~When life gives you lemons ask for salt and tequila!

~When life gives you lemons, make orange juice, then wonder how the heck you did it.

~When life gives you lemons, collect them one day life will stop and u would have the most lemons ever.

~When life hands you lemons make lemonade and find someone else who life handed vodka to, and have a party

~When life gives you lemons alter their DNA and make super lemons!!!

~When life gives you lemons just shut up and eat your damn lemons

~When life gives you lemons sell them on ebay,

~When life gives you lemons when no one is looking, throw them through life’s window and run away.

~When life gives you lemons, squirt the juice in his eye

~When life gives you lemons, find a kid with a paper cut

~When life gives you lemons, ask for the receipt

hahah~nite peeps!

Bitter truth,sweet lies..

i'm starting my update today with a phrase'

"i rather be hurt by the truth than to be comforts by the lies"

i always believe that honesty is the strongest foundation in any relationship and there is no,never,such thing as sweet lies,comfort lies,white lies or whatever you call it in any given circumstances because lies will always be lies and no matter how kind or how relevant the excuse of making one,lets say the intention is to cover up the real truth to protect someone from getting hurt by it because its too much to handle or just simply too bury up a stupid mistake that could possibly ruin a relationship or worst,to ruin a trust.

lies will always be wrong no matter how sweet and how fascinating it sounds.for example you compliments your friends for their appearance on one particular day because you don't want them to feel bad and you want to boost up their confidence by giving them insincere credits when the truth is,clown outfit looks better than your friend's ugly dress..wouldn't it be nice if you just tell her the truth so she can change for a better look rather than letting her go out to the public with wardrobe malfunction?its not going to be pretty when your friend found out what you've done.it could destroy a once solid friendship just by not saying the little truth!

as for bitter truth,yes..you can't change the fact that truth can be a little hurt sometime but its even more painful when you learn that the truth you've been told all this while was actually just a lies but truth on the other hand,thou its hurt its the real thing.face it and find a way to handle it.stop filling yourself with sweet lies,stop telling others with with lies coz at the end of the day,the truth will come out eventually and you will regret it for not telling the truth at the beginning..

Trust is earned and honesty is the best way to achieve it so bitter truth?sweet lies?i choose truth! :)

A weekend with vampires~

so,it's been a few days i haven't post any update here and i kinda miss it...so,i'm back on updating..

there is not much to update but i'm still going to continue blah-blah-blah-ing in here coz..ITS MY FRIGGIN' BLOG!...duhhhh! :)

so,my entire weekend this time,i was badly preoccupied by Vampires..i met a lot and boy,turn me into one coz now i'm obsessed with them!Lol~well,i wasn't exactly met one..all i'm saying is,i bought this Vampire Diaries season 1 complete DVD and i'm stuck on my sofa watching it all day through out this weekend.

The Vampires Diaries-i must say,it really got me addicted and i can't wait to have the second season complete DVD..a lot of drama in it,a lot of lip-locking too!haha~oh well..i think my weekend this time around was ok..went to here and there..home..hanging out with friends and family..just the same old stuff..

ok then,i'm yawning pretty bad now and i think i'm off to bed now..so,good night peeps...

toothache-Fixed!

toothache fixed!

yeah!no longer in pain and i can rest well tonight...

so,i went to see the Dentist today at Tuaran and after anxiously waiting for about an hour an a half,they call me in..i was a little bit nervous since this is my first time at the dentist after few years passed.i don't know what to expect coz i don't quite remember how it feels like having my bad teeth removed.it was a long-long time ago and one thing for sure,the pain of the needle is going to be the same but i was wrong..

the doctor rub my gummy around the bad teeth that she was about to remove with some kind of liquid that end up numbing that particular area so that it doesn't feel hurt when the needle that injects me with even more powerful numbing drug is injected.She let the drug settle for a few good minutes and while we were waiting for it to kick up its tool on me,we chat a little together with this one cute assistant of her..yeah,cute babe..

they put few cute toys and doll hanging on the dentist lamp and i assume that the purpose of it is to comfort their scared little patient while the treatment in progress.so,i ask the dentist assistant 'berkesan juga kaini patung sama tu budak2?' and she reply me 'ofcourse,some of them even want to bring it home with them'....'so if i got scared,can i have it and bring it home with me?",i joked at the dentist assistant..she just reply me with smile..(i guess its a NO or she thinks i'm a chicken by saying that!)

the doctor come back to me and continue the process on me and the next thing i know,"you're done",the doc said and i was like "what?that fast?seriously?"..she showed me my teeth and "owh..ok then.."..so i pay them RM50 for the treatment and then i proceed to 1Borneo but before that,sempat juga saya bertukar2 facebook sama tu nurse2 sana...yahuuuu!

A lady stopped me while i was walking at 1B and asked me "are you okay?you got blood on your mouth boy.."and so i sweep it with my hand and there was a blood coming out from my mouth,"yeah..i'm fine..i just had my bad teeth removed just now at dentist..".the lady suggests my to buy cotton at the pharmacy and i followed her advice.that was embarrassing!i didn't realized the blood coming out from my mouth coz my lips was so numb at that moment..no wonder people keep staring at me masa tu!

nah,i give you the very picture of my teeth..saya minta ni gigi saya tadi..haha...ewww!

puas hati la..finally,no more toothache!tenkiu tenkiu tenkiu!selesanya!

hahaha~thats all for today...

toothache!arghh!

ok..i'm in a great agony right now..i got fever,headache and toothache all coming at once and this cute body of mine cannot take it anymore!LOL~

well,i don't mind the fever and the headache but the gigi,arghh!i haven't got toothache since i was 8 and now,few years later(MANY YEARS LATER!),it strikes back..after few good years of free-toothache,i somehow forget how it feels like to have a toothache..seriously,was it really hurt like what i'm experiencing now,or was it just me,over-reacting coz this is 'all so new-again' for me?

i don't blame the pain,i blame me for not taking good care of my teeth and failed to maintain the good momentum of having such good and healthy teeth..well.'serves your sorry @$ enol!'..your problem is the result of your own bad behaviour, and you deserve it big time!

bagus saja baini gigi saya but tiba2 itu tampal dia tetanggal(mcm balan2)jadi itu lubang dia terexposed la..its not like i didn't do anything bout it ba..i went to the dentist at Hospital Kerajaan and they keep putting me on appointment after appointment and i got tired of waiting,i was like.."aik..when are they going to fix my teeth ni kalau mcm ni?duluan lagi kena kejar sakit gigi ni drp kena tampal!"..so,here i am now,in pain,cursing the dentist that handle my case!even drinking cold water pun became a very hard thing to do since the teeth so sensitive to it..any contact with cold water will put me in HELL!

last night was a nightmare!Good sleep?hmm..i wish!by the way,i'm going to Tuaran later on to get this problem fixed..can't afford to carry on like this coz i can't bear it any longer!arghh!a friend just recommend me a good Dental Clinic at Tuaran and i can't wait to go..

so,i think thats all for now..i love blogging..if you don't like it,i don't see why i have to give a damn bout it kan?hehehehe!~

Clueless night!

i was a little bored tonight..wait,i think the word 'little' does not suit my condition right now..okay,yes!i'm soooooo friggin' bored,i couldn't even think of something nice to write tonight but since i have promised myself to make a daily update,i guess i have to juga la...

by the way,i'm a bit clueless bout what i'm going to write tonight since i have headache and bad fever on my resume right now but saya akan tetap menggagahkan diri untuk mengupdate this humble blog of mine ini (bagi tidak mengecewakan peminat)wakakak!

so,i'm just gonna write about random thoughts yang sedang melimpas-limpas di kepala saya skarang..so,its raining now..i love rain..especially time2 mau tidur..it gives a very deep calming sense thats so relaxing..safe to say,hearing the raindrops is like a good therapy for me..buat saya teringat yang dulu2..'memori daun pisang saat turun hujan..'ada bah ni satu kenangan masa budak2..umur saya 14 tahun kali tu...tingkatan 2 kenen..masa tu sukan bah di padang sekolah..saya duduk sama ini satu sumandak..then suddenly hujan turun,berdua la kami berpayung(dia ada bawa payung masa tu) dalam hujan and my other friends yg ada di sana like,'wooooohhhhh!"...sempat jg kami couple dulu but skejap ja.. :) bah...cukup laitu kalau pasal yang ini..haha!

so,what else aa..hmm...hujan semakin lebat..jangan saja banjir..bah..thats all for today..sorry for the lack of idea today..nite people.. :)

Bathroom Singer/kitchen singer :)

good evening everybody!

how do you like the title of my entry today?ring a bell?LOL~

i know everybody can relate to this topic right?yeah...

bathroom star?kitchen star?..everybody love singing,doesn't matter if you're good at it or not but you just can't help the fact that singing is a very fun thing to do and there is no limit to it.you can sing everywhere you want and whenever you like,out of tune or tone deaf,we don't give a damn..singing is fun and free and everybody can enjoy it!

so,bathroom star?kitchen star?i raise my hand and i rest my case!lol~yeah,i always love singing ever since i was little and until now my singing habit hasn't change a bit..i'm still singing as loud as i can,adding my own original twist to it and cooking..huh?haha..singing in the kitchen is a must for me.doesn't matter when i'm cooking or doing the dirty dishes,singing is always there to 'enter frame'...haha~

how i wish to have karaoke set in my kitchen or in my bathroom but my my mom would be so against it coz she know how severe my singing in the bathroom case is..i could spend hours of time belting high notes in the shower while the water is still running but good thing bout living at kampung,the water is free so you don't have to worry bout the bill..so,if you're living in a big city,avoid singing with open running water and if you're singing while cooking for food,jangan sampai hangus aa,especially girl...nanti kena kurang berian..kena cakap tidak pandai masak.. :P

i don't have the greatest voice in the world,that i admit but who care?lets just sing like there's no tomorrow!

p/s: do you know that singing also burn calories?i don't!but according to google,yes it does!but i'm still fat anyway..hahaha!